Monday, October 22, 2012

Maybe love isn't enough.

It's okay if you don't support me in music, it's okay if you don't support me being Christian, it's okay if you don't accept me for who i am and it's okay if you think i am a horrible daughter. I forgive you for never supporting me in anything but studies. Maybe not even that anymore now that i am thinking of applying to a Christian university. But then again, most universities in America are Christian anyway so there really isn't much of a choice for you.

But don't worry, i will still support you when you are older and need my help because i love you and i accept you for who you are. I support you for devoting your life to your family. I support you for loving your husband and children with all your heart. I support you for being an amazing mother and caring for my sisters and I. I support you for who you are.

I'm sorry for going against you but this is who i am. I am happy being Christian, i am happy being involved in music. Even though it matters what you think, i will still stay where i am happy because i will not put my happiness at stake for your happiness. This is my life and you brought me up to be independent and to make my own decisions.

I only hope you spoke better English and would understand what i am saying as i cannot read or write in Chinese.

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